This socially taboo topic is the fire to the flame, the gravy to the potatoes & the icing to the cake of sex acts. It's such a shunned on expression of one's love to the other however in some states it's a crime to have oral relations. These fabulous foreplay techniques brings on the ultimate of arousal & for those who can learn how to master it will have overly satisfied lovers in life. We've covered the art of the kiss & how the erogenous zones are an overlooked & under stimulated component to true love making, now we will advance to the highly anticipated joy & sensuality that oral love making can bring to a relationship.
For the men who enjoy giving a woman such a delightful tongue lashing you already know how to deliver sensations within the road map of a woman's flower. But for those who don't, take heed to the lessons you're about to experience. As I covered in the Vulva section on erogenous zones you must cater entirely to a woman's delicacies with admiration & enthusiasm in order for her response to be of the highest accord. I will go in to great detail of all the aspects of cunnilingus & the arousal levels each move you make will create. Let's start with these simple oral steps for pleasing a woman so that you yourself can become an oral-gasm connoisseur.
Many women themselves should already know that they must first ensure that they are clean & fresh so they can be ready to have their vittles diddled. This definitely should be a plus if you want your lover to take their time & enjoy the marination process of lapping away at your private dancer. So here is the clear laid out path for true punani worshipping.
1. Tease, Tease & More Tease Please...with all the fun of foreplay nothing excites more than the anticipation for you to indulge in the heated aroma of your lover's natural sauciness, however before you commence to partake in such lavishness you must rely on the erogenous zone plan to ensure that her blooming rose has flourished & is in it's truest form of eagerness. To begin to get her into this mode, you must rely on your senses to adhere to your lovers target points. We covered numerous hot spots in my last blog so moving forward to the focal point of cunnilingus, we must go further into the anatomical design of a woman's pleasure garden. As you can see in the diagram below there are key areas to pay close attention to.
2. Tongue Flick-HER...be spontaneous with your tongue. Unpredictable lapping will cause your lover to have multiple reactions to your lathering of her vulva. She will start to gyrate, grind, push towards you & pull you in for deeper drool action. Remember to work slowly so that you both can enhance the pleasure. The longer you spend catering to her gushy goodies the better you will be at bringing her to orgasm. As you see in the diagram above there's truly not a spot that you can pinpoint as the starting spot, however never really start at the clitoris. Even though this is the most sensitive & desirable area of coverage I must point out that you must give in to the surrounding petals of this flower to work your way to the bud. You can kiss & pet the pubic mound while rubbing the inner & outer labia which should be very much in glisten mode at this point if you are doing the right thing. An area that gets hardly any oral recognition is the perineum. This area as you can see is located between the vagina & anus. This highly sensitive location entraps alot of the moistness that the vagina secretes. Don't be afraid if your tongue drifts further down to the anus. This is also a highly stimulated area that women & men alike don't often realize. Remember to acknowledge that your lover is safe & clean in all aspects of hygiene before engaging in any oral stimulation. From this area you should move your way up to the vulva in either direction but don't forget to go from right to left & vice versa around both sides of the vulva giving as much attention to the labia as possible. Take them into your mouth & lightly suck them & play with them between your lips. She will love this & you will know it by her buttocks raising up & her pulling you closer to her. Her pants & moans will also increase the more you explore & hit target spots with precision. As you are orally catering to your lover you could be rubbing her clitoris or fingering her vagina to create multiple levels of arousal. Again there's no set amount of time one focuses on to go down on a woman however once you get to her engorged clitoris her reactions should be hair tugging, ear pulling, or sheet grabbing. All in all if you follow this rhythm around her precious folds you will have her in bliss & that is a win/win.
3. Rock Her To Gasmland...now remember she doesn't always have to be on her back for her to enjoy your mouth service. You can turn her over for her to lay belly down & you can prep her cookie from behind as you lay between her legs. Alot of women enjoy having their ass played with while getting some lower lip service as well. So spread them cheeks wide & delve into her deliciousness. You can palm her vulva as you once again tongue dart her perineum & anus. Also you yourself can lay on your back & have her grind her mound onto your face. Remember to not neglect her perky breasts during this process either. Just reach up & pinch her nipples & squeeze her ample breasts while you muster your chin into her vagina as your nose & tongue tickle her clitoris. Either way you go at this pleasure ride she should be taken over the edge. Remember communication is key so ensure that your lover is enjoying your methods & respect her if she becomes too sensitive. Don't push to much otherwise the results can be a downer.
Now it's only fair that a woman returns the favor in the game of foreplay. I know some women feel awkward in the approach or even the thought of it but it's truly a wonderful experience. You must realize how ever good you feel receiving oral from your lover is just what your lover will feel in return so why not explore this as well. If your ultimate goal is to satisfy by all means then this should be part of your repertoire. But the joy a woman can feel from pleasing her lover can also enhance her own arousal.
OK ladies let's go over some things for you to understand about the male oral perspective. Like yourself the male anatomy has certain hot spots also. Not as plentiful as yourself however still some important areas of coverage that must be aroused. No diagram is needed for this but we will cover the main target points.
1. The Glans...this would be designated as the head of the penis however there are two sides that bring a different sensation to men. What men may call the "shroom" which would be the upper region of the penis head has less sensations than the underside which is called the "trigger" as in a gun. All it takes is just the right pressure with your mouth or tongue & the shooting will commence.
2. The Shaft...of course this is the region that grows with arousal & is considered the thickest part of the penis. Again it also has two sides of sensations with the underside being the most prevalent when aroused. When you lick up/down the shaft while stroking the head you will feel it get thicker & harder & if you look up at your lover while doing it you will see by the expressions just how it makes him feel.
3. The Scrotum...of course these are the testicles that are truly a sensitive part of the male anatomy that when attended to must be done with great sensuality & care due to the sensitivity. However it's a huge turn on for the man if this area gets some attention as well.
4. The Perineum...yes men have one too which is located below the scrotum & above the anus. Not alot of women ever pay this area any mind but it also has sensitive nerve endings that can bring a man pleasure.
5. The Prostate...some women have also licked or fingered the anus during the oral process due to the new pleasure men find in prostate stimulation. Again know your partner & ensure there is great hygiene techniques used prior to performing this act.
These areas are basically the prime spots for you to focus on to bring your lover to total erection & readiness for your love making session.
And lastly another special treat is when you want to please each other simultaneously which is called doing the "69". This is when either partner lays down & the other partner lays on top of them with their sexual anatomies at face level. That way both are getting stimulation together & bonding at the same time. This position can be done laying down or standing up. It's tremendously pleasurable & can connect a couple on all levels from physical to mental to emotional. Being on the same page will bring great joy not only to your oral experience but to the overall love making session.
So folks there it is in a nutshell. The incredible oral pleasure experience. Hopefully you've become enriched in yet another of my blogs on the topic of sexual enjoyment. I look forward to continuing to provide informative & entertaining topics soon. I will also dabble in tackling some erotic vignette writings as well. Thanks again for following me.
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