Kissing is the most universally understood sign of affection in this world. It can be delivered from a gentle peck to a hot & heavy tongue twirl. The passion one gives & receives from such intimate contact can lead to seductive & intense sessions of shared bliss. The connection that transpires from such intimate caresses can send waves of stimulation throughout your body. However lovers must realize that the lip connection goes far beyond the mouth. As teenagers we all "necked" so-to-speak which of course was very intense kissing with some ear nibbling & neck pecking which of course led to hickeys. But as you mature & learn more about pleasure the kiss becomes an art of love making that can be the paintbrush on the canvas of ecstasy.
Never underestimate how the tongue & lips can generate goosebumps along the torso of your lover. From the nape of the neck to the crease above the buttocks the level of pleasure that this powerful muscle can deliver can be electrifying. Some focus their attention primarily on the main parts of the body which to them are the mouth, the breasts, the ass & the anatomy. What's not paid attention to is there are so many more nooks & crannies on the human body that will stir the hottest desires & have your lover/partner arching their back & curling their toes. These special areas are known as erogenous zones. Some say there are up to 100 of these spots on the body. Some of these spots can cause mild to intense stimulation. However using just the right touch whether it be from your hands or mouth can have hairs standing on end if properly applied.
People aren't born with the talent to discover these prime locations of pleasure. But with educating yourself to be a satisfying lover you can easily learn to keep the bedroom a happening place or wherever you decide to enjoy your intimate moments. So lets break down a few key spots for you to focus your attention to:
The Head - There are many different stimulation points here. The lips are the obvious primary area, however the scalp has multiple levels of sensations which are brought out during an intimate massage to the hair follicles. These sensations can be relaxing to intense depending on the individual. Some people like to have their hair pulled during foreplay or intercourse which creates waves of pleasure to those who enjoy it. Next we have the ears where you can whisper sweet nothings & trickle your tongue/lips around the lobe or behind the ear. Then of course you have the neck which has so many nerve endings which can easily be stimulated with the lips/tongue. From under the chin to each side & around to the back where the neck connects to the spine.
The Torso - This is a great area that should have massive attention paid to it during foreplay & during lovemaking. From the kisses to tongue caresses, one can't go wrong with the multitude of stimulation points on the torso. The obvious of course are the breasts. The aureoles are full of nerve endings that aren't just at the nipple. Kissing & sucking all around the breast can bring on intense stimulation. From one side to the other you must show equal attention to each breast & remember to not forget the underside of them as well. Next this should lead you to the abdomen area which may also tickle your lover/partner but ignites the juices of the lower region which will come in time for you to connect with. Don't forget as interesting & eyebrow raising as it may be, the area under the arm is a hot spot too. Women are very sensitive in this region which of course relates to tickling as a child but as an adult it creates a whole different sensation. Don't knock it til you try it. The torso just doesn't consist of the front of the body. The back also has many areas that can enjoy your hands, mouth & tongue too. From the nape of the neck, down the spine & to the tailbone area. If the right amount of pressure is used it can have backs arching & hips grinding. And lastly don't forget the arms, hands & fingers.The arm kissing down to the bend of the arm is a very under stimulated area. Kissing it & lightly tongue tapping your way down to the wrist & then kissing the palm of the hand & sucking/licking the fingers are all different ways to stir up different sensations of arousal.
The Legs - Oh how sweet it is to worship the tender yet firm areas of the inner thighs. The gasps you will receive from the steady approach of your breath & lips/tongue can stir up an array of physical reactions. Starting from the outer reaches of the ass around & down to the back of the knees...hint fellas. I'll say it again back of the knees where the leg bends. Alot of concentrated effort should be made to introduce your touch whether it be by hand massage or gentle oral caresses. Then you can continue your trek down the calf to the ankle & heel of the foot which can be massaged with steady rhythm. This will relax your lover/partner & give you some control. While massaging her heels & sole you can lick or suck her toes. Watch the reaction as your lover/partner's lips part & her pelvic region responds to the abundance of sensations it feel from the various actions your are performing on their foot. Working both legs/feet up & down with tender kisses/caresses will give you the result you long for upon your arrival to her overly moistened folds of glory.
The Buttocks - Believe it or not the ass can be a super power to the heat a woman feels between her legs. Not only can you cater to it with kisses, but light smacks brings some to the boiling point of arousal. Alot of different sensations are felt when you grab yourself some of that sexy flesh & just bury your face into it. It's best if your lover/partner is on all 4's & you cascade the arch of their back with tender licks/kisses as you approach her ample bubble & give it plenty of kisses/licks all around including the crack. You can spread their cheeks & feel the heat rise from their creamy center. This process will lead you to the ultimate level of your lover/partner being more than ready for your next move.
The Vulva - Without a doubt this is the HOT spot. But if all the above is done prior to the highly anticipated visit you will need a bib or a roll of Bounty on hand to clean up the mess. No joke on that. Your lover/partner's folds will glisten & be at full exposure for your loving approach. Now before you get all ancy & try to go at it with vengeance, ease back & continue to arouse her beyond words. Most people think the clitoris is the only region that desires to be loved. However that is a myth. There are other areas that deserve some equal attention. Before you even begin to glaze the old chin, start at the upper inner thigh that connects her legs to her torso. This is a very sensitive area that you can kiss, nibble & lick with just the right pressure. Her back will be arched, her pelvis will be gyrating as you get closer to the promise land. You will feel immense heat coming from her vagina & feel the wetness that awaits your touch. At this point you can begin your tender licks from the bottom to the top. Kiss around her vulva up to her pubic mound & back around again. Spread her labia so that you can start to focus your attention on them taking each into your mouth & lightly giving them a massage with your lips/tongue. Splash your tongue around the vaginal entrance & engulf the flowing juices that you've created by all of your actions. Lick up/down her labia, as you do your nose will be tickling her rosebud increasing her arousal. At this point you can tease her clitoris by lapping at it or just taking it between your lips. Some gentle humming can create a vibration of sorts that will have her tugging at your hair & pulling you in deeper for more. All women are different in the amount of arousal they can withstand so please pay close attention to her reactions. No matter how much you enjoy giving this method to her she may only be able to take so much due to her sensitivity. That's why once again communication is key in the relationship.
The Buttocks - Believe it or not the ass can be a super power to the heat a woman feels between her legs. Not only can you cater to it with kisses, but light smacks brings some to the boiling point of arousal. Alot of different sensations are felt when you grab yourself some of that sexy flesh & just bury your face into it. It's best if your lover/partner is on all 4's & you cascade the arch of their back with tender licks/kisses as you approach her ample bubble & give it plenty of kisses/licks all around including the crack. You can spread their cheeks & feel the heat rise from their creamy center. This process will lead you to the ultimate level of your lover/partner being more than ready for your next move.
The Vulva - Without a doubt this is the HOT spot. But if all the above is done prior to the highly anticipated visit you will need a bib or a roll of Bounty on hand to clean up the mess. No joke on that. Your lover/partner's folds will glisten & be at full exposure for your loving approach. Now before you get all ancy & try to go at it with vengeance, ease back & continue to arouse her beyond words. Most people think the clitoris is the only region that desires to be loved. However that is a myth. There are other areas that deserve some equal attention. Before you even begin to glaze the old chin, start at the upper inner thigh that connects her legs to her torso. This is a very sensitive area that you can kiss, nibble & lick with just the right pressure. Her back will be arched, her pelvis will be gyrating as you get closer to the promise land. You will feel immense heat coming from her vagina & feel the wetness that awaits your touch. At this point you can begin your tender licks from the bottom to the top. Kiss around her vulva up to her pubic mound & back around again. Spread her labia so that you can start to focus your attention on them taking each into your mouth & lightly giving them a massage with your lips/tongue. Splash your tongue around the vaginal entrance & engulf the flowing juices that you've created by all of your actions. Lick up/down her labia, as you do your nose will be tickling her rosebud increasing her arousal. At this point you can tease her clitoris by lapping at it or just taking it between your lips. Some gentle humming can create a vibration of sorts that will have her tugging at your hair & pulling you in deeper for more. All women are different in the amount of arousal they can withstand so please pay close attention to her reactions. No matter how much you enjoy giving this method to her she may only be able to take so much due to her sensitivity. That's why once again communication is key in the relationship.
So remember to keep that passion a top priority when it comes to your love making. And with that I end this blog session & hope you've enjoyed reading my points of view of how & what to do with your lover/partner with one of the greatest muscles you possess...YOUR MOUTH. And I remind you to keep me updated on what more you would like to read so that I can provide you a platform of informative & entertaining topics pertaining to human sexuality.
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